It's been a while since I posted anything, and our baby is now here. This is how he came into the world.
We went into the hospital to be
induced at 5:30 am on Tuesday June 25. We checked in and got settled
and they started me on pitocin. Not much happened between that and my
doctor showing up to check on me. She checked my cervix (note: the
whole time I labored my cervix didn't move forward so every check was
pretty excruciating) and I was 50% effaced and at about 1 or 1 ½
dilated. I had been that since 27 weeks, despite all the contracting
I had been doing.
My doctor decided to give me a
different drug to soften and help dilate my cervix instead of the
pitocin. It was inserted in me instead of given through IV. And I was
allowed to eat while on it, which I wouldn't have been with pitocin.
I took full advantage of being able to eat, since I knew the time
would come that they wouldn't let me. I was able to eat breakfast,
lunch and dinner while that drug was administered. I got 3 doses of
it 3 hours apart. My contractions got going pretty regularly, and
were getting progressively stronger. By the time dinner came around,
I didn't really feel like eating anymore, which I took as good sign
that I was really getting into labor. A while after the last dose,
they started me on pitocin again. I hadn't really dilated anymore,
but I had softened and effaced. At this point things start to get a
little more blended together in my memory.
The contractions really got going and
they were long. They would last 2-3 minutes sometimes, and they
usually had very little time between them. I also began to have
pretty bad back labor. My nurse tried helping me to get him to move
by tilting me back in the bed. The tilting seemed to work, and he
seemed to be in a much better position. I believe it was at this
point my doctor came back to check me. At first she said I wasn't
progressed enough to break my water, but then she changed her mind
and went ahead. This was an incredibly painful experience. I was
supposed to stay semi-reclined for half an hour so that the cord
didn't prolapse. I did that, but by the time half an hour had elapsed
I really had to pee, so I got up to do that. I think I may have
gotten on the birth ball around this time. I noticed that my back
labor had returned, and my nurse suggested side lunging on a chair to
encourage him to move. I tried that, but it didn't seem to work.
From there on the contractions were
very difficult to get through because they were so long and had
barely any time between. My mom and Ben were awesome about
encouraging me and helping me breathe through the contractions.
Eventually, I reached a point where I just couldn't stay on top of
the contractions. The back labor was so painful. I tried a bunch of
different positions and my mom even tried applying counter pressure,
but nothing made them manageable. I got to the point where I was
struggling to breathe through them because all I could do was
whimper. I told my mom that I thought I wanted an epidural. She told
the nurse, and I signed the form (I'm not sure how). My poor mother
(she had such a hard time watching me go through pain) left for the
epidural and Ben stayed to help me. The doctor showed up, and she was
so sweet (I got to see her again later). I was still having to
breathe through the contractions of course. I sat on the edge of the
bed and tried to curve my back according to their instructions. She
numbed my back and then started trying to get the epidural catheter
in. I think she tried 3 times without being able to get it in. I
started to worry I wasn't going to be able to have it. At that point
she had me get in the fetal position to try that way. Going through
contractions in that position was the most painful experience of my
life. It was so hard, but I knew all I could do was just breathe
through it. I heard the nurse and doctor comment on how controlled I
was. Finally she got the catheter in and the epidural got going. I
also had to have a urinary catheter.
The relief was incredible. I could
still feel some pressure and discomfort, but definitely manageable.
We all tried to get some sleep at this point. I'm not sure how much
rest I got before my nurse came in and looked at the monitor,
followed by at least 3 other nurses. They all started doing different
things and told me to flip over onto my hands and knees. They took of
the belly monitors and put in internal monitors. I was really
thankful for the epidural, because I felt the pressure of what they
were doing but no pain. They had paged the on call doctor and she
came in. They gave me something to relax my uterus so I wouldn't have
contractions. By this time I was absolutely terrified because I had
no idea what was going on. The doctor told me that the baby's heart
rate had dropped very low, for a long time. She said that normally
they give the baby a couple of times to have a problem before they do
something, but my baby's heart rate drop was so drastic that if he
did it again she was going to take me for a c-section. This was not
what I had ever wanted to hear. At that moment though I had been so
terrified by the thought of something going wrong with the baby that
I decided I didn't care if it took a c-section to get him out safely.
The baby being okay was all I cared about.
At this point everybody left again and
my nurse turned out the lights so we could all get some rest while we
waited to start pitocin again. It was then I started crying. Ben came
over to talk to me and see how I was. I told him that that had scared
me so bad, and I didn't care if I had to have a c-section, I just
wanted the baby to be safe. He was proud of me for the way I was
handling the potential bad news. Eventually they started me on the
pitocin again. I'm not sure how long I was on it before the second
rush of nurses came in. My mom had just gone into the bathroom. By
the time she came out Ben was suiting up in scrubs so he could come
with me. They wheeled me to operating room. Again I was thankful to
already have the epidural catheter so we didn't have to deal with
that before they could get started. Ben had to wait outside while
they prepped me. It felt like I was waiting forever him to come in,
but the doctor who gave me the epidural was at my head talking to me
and that helped me to not feel so bad. I was shaking hard and
uncontrollably at this point. I was scared for the baby, but I was
also really scared about having surgery. Finally Ben was allowed to
come in. He came and sat behind me. I still felt so scared so I asked
him to just put his hand on me somewhere. He touched my face I think,
and they got going on my surgery. I couldn't feel pain, but I felt
the pressure of what they were doing. During some of the tugging on
my insides I was making really weird noises because it just felt so
strange.
They pulled the baby out, I heard him
cry and felt such a rush of emotion started crying. It turned out that he had the cord around his neck and it had nearly prolapsed. That was why his heart rate dropped with the strong contractions. The doctor also told my doctor that she thought I would've had to have a c-section no matter what because of the way the baby was coming down. Ben went over to
see the baby. Eventually he brought him over for me to see. I gave
Benaiah a kiss and told him I was gonna be his mama. Then the Bens
had to go up to nursery and I went to recovery. My nurse was taking
care of me there. She was awesome, and it made me feel better to have
her there. As I was laying there I felt true relief that it was all
over. My heart rate was still really high so my nurse told me to
think of something calming. I thought about how wonderful Ben had
been during the whole process, and I thought about how I would get to
hold my baby soon. That did the trick. I asked my nurse some
questions about my recovery since I didn't know all that much about
c-section recovery. And I also was able to get some sleep. I was
there about an hour.
Then I was wheeled up to the mom/baby
ward. My mom was waiting for me in hallway and she came in with me. I
saw my Bens through the nursery window. I was wheeled to my room,
scooched over into my bed. My baby was brought in and they handed to
me. This was my first time to hold my baby. I kissed his perfect
little face and fell in love.